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Conflict Hurts Engagement: 7 Silent Signs to Watch For
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May 1, 2025

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Everything appears to be fine at the workplace at first glance. The group maintains a professional approach, attends meetings, and fulfills deadlines. However, a sense of unease lies beneath the surface—motivation is waning, creativity is dwindling, and teamwork is strained. Does that sound familiar?

Workplace conflict isn’t always evident. Shouting matches in the conference room are not necessary. More often, it’s the quiet, underlying tension that erodes engagement and productivity. And the cost? According to a Gallup survey, disengaged workers cost their employer 18% of their yearly compensation. So, how can you identify and address conflict at work before it takes a toll? Look for these seven silent signs that conflict is quietly undermining your team’s engagement.

So, how can you identify and address conflict at work before it takes a toll? Look for these seven silent signs that conflict is quietly undermining your team’s engagement. 

The Connection Between Conflict and Engagement

Conflict at work subtly undermines employee engagement in addition to causing uncomfortable meetings and angry email exchanges. Unresolved, it reduces output, depresses morale, and causes workers to feel disengaged from their jobs. 

Here’s how: 

The 7 Silent Signals: Unveiling the Hidden Impact

These seven subtle clues suggest that unresolved conflict could be hurting your team.

1. The “Phantom Participation” Drop

Have you ever sat in a meeting where some employees were physically present but mentally checked out? They nod along and perhaps throw in a generic comment, but they don’t provide any meaningful input. This “Phantom Participation” signals disengagement, often caused by employees feeling unheard or undervalued.

More than half of respondents to a recent HBR survey of more than 1000 full-time employees in the US, 10.7% said they felt not valued at all, and 46.4% said they felt somewhat valued by their company. Employees who don’t feel recognized gradually withdraw from discussions, creating a ripple effect on team productivity. 

2. The “Recognition Desert”

Being recognized is essential, not simply a nice-to-have.  Peer-to-peer recognition that begins to wane is frequently an indication of stressed team dynamics.  A cycle of disengagement is created when workers don’t feel valued or acknowledged, which makes them less likely to recognize others. 

For performance development programs to be successful, managers must be resolutely dedicated to a strengths-based, engagement-focused approach to growth, according to Gallup’s research on high-performing teams. By fostering a culture of ongoing gratitude and ensuring that workers feel valued for their contributions, companies can break this cycle.

3. The “Information Hoarding” Phenomenon

When workers begin to withhold important information from one another, it’s a trust issue as much as a productivity one.  Unresolved conflict, a fear of competition, or a lack of psychological safety at work are common causes of information hoarding.

According to the Harris Poll’s 2023 State of Business Communication survey for Grammarly, 72% of company executives believe that their team’s productivity has increased as a result of effective communication. Team cohesion is strengthened and disengagement is avoided by fostering an open, cooperative atmosphere where knowledge sharing is welcomed.

4. The “Selective Socializing” Shift

Have you noticed how certain workers form close-knit cliques while others are excluded? This “Selective Socializing” is an indication that there is a breakdown in team cohesion. When exclusivity takes hold, people who are excluded often feel alone and unappreciated, which in turn hinders teamwork. This gradually erodes confidence and lowers morale in general.

Research from the MIT Sloan Management Review  shows that diverse collaboration enhances innovation—meaning teams that embrace inclusivity are more creative and effective. Encouraging team-building initiatives and fostering an inclusive culture through platforms can help bridge divides and create a more connected workforce.

5. The “Increased Micromanagement” Cycle

Managers who are uncomfortable with conflict tend to tighten their control over their staff. Although it may seem like a safety net, this “Increased Micromanagement” loop actually hinders productivity. Employees who feel constantly monitored tend to lose trust and autonomy, which can stifle creativity and initiative. McKinsey report  found that 32% of employees in typical companies are mildly disengaged. If they are micromanaged, they may become even more disengaged and risk becoming part of the actively disengaged group. The fix? Leaders should focus on empowering employees rather than controlling them, promoting open dialogue, and using recognition tools to encourage autonomy and accountability.

6. The “Sudden Compliance” Mask

Disagreements spur invention, so they’re not always a negative thing. However, it’s an indication of more serious problems when staff members stop speaking up and just accept things. While actual issues remain unresolved, “Sudden Compliance” fosters a fictitious feeling of unity. 

Employees can perform up to five times better and be more innovative when they feel psychologically comfortable. Leaders must encourage healthy debate and create spaces where employees feel safe to challenge ideas without fear of backlash.

7. The “Escalating Absenteeism” Pattern

Employees will do whatever it takes to avoid stress and unresolved disputes, even calling in sick. An abrupt increase in personal leave and sick days could be a sign of emotional exhaustion resulting from workplace conflict.

A poll conducted by SHRM indicates that absences related to mental health have increased by 33%. Addressing conflict at its root—through recognition programs, mental wellness initiatives, and open communication channels can help retain employees and enhance their overall well-being.

Proactive Strategies for a Harmonious Team

Intentionally fostering an environment of open communication, collaboration, and trust is crucial to the success of teams. Here’s how companies may foster a supportive team environment. 

Foster Psychological Safety

Employees need to feel safe sharing their thoughts, ideas, and concerns without fear of judgment or backlash. In psychologically safe workplaces, team members are more willing to take risks, suggest innovations, and engage in meaningful discussions.

Managers can cultivate this environment by:

Regular Feedback Mechanisms

Employees highly value feedback; however, it must be transparent, constructive, and consistent.  Employees feel supported rather than assessed only when something goes wrong, thanks to a combination of anonymous feedback channels, real-time recognition, and ongoing performance appraisals.

Regular feedback has several important advantages, such as:

Encourage Collaborative Goal-Setting

When given a say in goal-setting, employees are far more committed to their work.  Teams are more dedicated to success when they co-create goals, as they feel more accountable and have a greater sense of ownership.

Managers should:

AdvantageClub.ai: Turning Signals into Solutions

AdvantageClub.ai analyzes engagement data using cutting-edge technology to identify potential conflict signals before they escalate.  Among the essential skills are:

Conflict Awareness for Engagement

Though we are conditioned to see confrontation as the enemy, the real threat to involvement is silence. Simmering tensions don’t just go away; they erode confidence, sap motivation, and stifle innovation. It is more crucial to understand and utilize conflict than to avoid it. AdvantageClub.ai identifies the precise stress points where unresolved problems are hindering your team’s progress, not just the areas where involvement is lacking. When handled effectively, conflict can foster creativity, build cohesive teams, and advance society.

The true question is, will you learn to embrace conflict, or will you continue to dread it? It’s time to stop seeking superficial harmony and start building workplaces where tension sparks transformation. Let AdvantageClub.ai show you how.